Lets lay down the foundations, being played is not limited to the other person having an affair, it could also be when the other person takes you on an immotional ride, uses you then dumps you when they’ve gotten out of you what they wanted…Its not fair and the worst part is the worthless feeling you get when you find that you have been played.
So what do you do then when you have been played? Everybody has a remedy for their torn emotions; some remedies are more personally destructive then others. at the end of the day it is important to ensure that you get over it by realising that you can move on and that what does not kill you, makes you stronger. And most importantly that you are worth something because people treat other people the way they feel about themselves.
It is important to realize that (having been played) you have learned how to recognize and deal with a player.